This is an ode to someone who was a part of our family longer than my youngest sister, and who could have very well been near my age when he passed away. My family's pet cat, Max, was put down yesterday after fighting with kidney problems for over 2 years, and fighting with old age for over a decade. It was really hard to say good-bye because he was part of the family. I know people always say that, but I mean literally, he acted more like a person than a cat.
He wandered into our house one day in October 1989 as a well-taken-care-of stray. He had been neutered and was "potty-trained" and very well-groomed. Despite our efforts to find his owners, none could be found, so we gladly took him in. A few months later we took him to the vet, and he told us that Max was an "old" cat, but no one could tell exactly how old he really was. He was always very playful and social, and that was a huge plus, seeing as he was living with 9 other people in a small bungalow. He always liked to be where the action was, and he even refused to go to bed most nights if everyone else was staying up late and having a good time. He also enjoyed being friendly with guests who would come for a visit - making sure to stroke himself against their legs and even try to climb up on their laps if they would allow it.
When I was still living at home I had taught him to jump up into my arms - something he wasn't afraid to try with anyone, even if they weren't paying attention. But, unfortunately, as he got older, and was unable to jump very high, this trick turned into him reaching up with his front paws as high as he could and digging his claws into your legs. I guess maybe he thought climbing up into your arms was the next best thing. One of my favourite memories of him was when he was relaxing on the couch, and kind of stretched and lost his balance and suddenly fell off the edge of the couch. All of us in the room started laughing at him (it looked so funny!) so he slowly walked towards the doorway with his head kind of low, and just before he left the room he turned his head around to look at all of us, then turned around and left. It looked just like something out of a cartoon! We felt bad after that, but it was hard not to laugh even harder at the way he reacted.
Yes, I'm definitely going to miss that little guy, but I think my mom and youngest sister, Kimberly, are going to miss him the most. Kimberly doesn't know life without him (she'll be 18 at the end of the year) and, for the past 35 years, my mom has never been at home alone on an ongoing basis - she always had young kids at home, and when Kimberly started school, Max was there to keep Mom company. His friendly nature wasn't limited to people - he was also very popular with all the other cats in our neighborhood. He even helped raise some kittens from another stray cat we had for a few months. I don't know if we're reunited with our pets after this life, but I really hope so - we all really love that cat.